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Discover the profound insights of Massimo Recalcati in this groundbreaking book, where the complexities of the psycho-social life of the son are explored with sensitivity and depth. 'The Son's Secret' delves into the intricate dynamics between parents and their sons, juxtaposing the timeless narrative of Oedipus and the parable of the prodigal son. This thought-provoking read unveils how conventional parenting strategies, be it authoritarian or democratic, often inadvertently impose parental dreams upon sons, leading to a clash with their yearning for autonomy. Recalcati proposes that the fundamental desire of sons is to be recognized as distinct, independent individuals with the freedom to create their own destinies. In today's world, where mental health and identity play crucial roles, this book is essential for parents striving for a deeper understanding of their children's needs and aspirations. Whether you are a parent, educator, or simply interested in family dynamics, 'The Son's Secret' offers enlightening perspectives that encourage the acknowledgement of sons' uniqueness and the necessity for space to grow. With 120 pages rich in content and published in 2020 by John Wiley & Sons (UK), this book is an indispensable addition to your library. Please note, shipping for this item is free, and delivery may take up to 6 weeks. Once your order is placed, it cannot be cancelled. Get your copy today and unravel the secrets of parenting, identity, and family relations.
Note: Shipping for this item is free. Please allow up to 6 weeks for delivery. Once your order is placed, it cannot be cancelled.
Condition: BRAND NEW
ISBN: 9781509531769
Year: 2020
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons (UK)
Pages: 120
Description:
This new book by Massimo Recalcati focuses on the psycho-social life of the son. Comparing and contrasting the tragic story of Oedipus by Sophocles and the parable of the prodigal son, Recalcati argues that all common parenting strategies, whether authoritarian or democratic, are attempts at sealing the fate of sons “ that is, they are designed to ensure that sons realize the dreams and fantasies of the parents. But all that sons want “ and this is their secret because they generally do not want, or are unable, to confront their parents directly “ is to be recognized as unique, as different, as independent, free-thinking individuals who are able to chart their own path in life, rather than extensions of their parents' fantasies. The parents' task is to acknowledge this, and to create the space for this desire to flourish.
Continuing his remarkable reflections on parents, children and family life, this new book by one of Italy's leading and bestselling public intellectuals will be of interest to a wide general readership.
Note: Shipping for this item is free. Please allow up to 6 weeks for delivery. Once your order is placed, it cannot be cancelled.
Condition: BRAND NEW
ISBN: 9781509531769
Year: 2020
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons (UK)
Pages: 120
Description:
This new book by Massimo Recalcati focuses on the psycho-social life of the son. Comparing and contrasting the tragic story of Oedipus by Sophocles and the parable of the prodigal son, Recalcati argues that all common parenting strategies, whether authoritarian or democratic, are attempts at sealing the fate of sons “ that is, they are designed to ensure that sons realize the dreams and fantasies of the parents. But all that sons want “ and this is their secret because they generally do not want, or are unable, to confront their parents directly “ is to be recognized as unique, as different, as independent, free-thinking individuals who are able to chart their own path in life, rather than extensions of their parents' fantasies. The parents' task is to acknowledge this, and to create the space for this desire to flourish.
Continuing his remarkable reflections on parents, children and family life, this new book by one of Italy's leading and bestselling public intellectuals will be of interest to a wide general readership.